The world is full of objects. To perceive these objects, human beings
have five instruments. They are the five Jnanendriyas (organs of perception).
After having perceived from these instruments, man first stores them
in the store room called the mind. After this, based on what is perceived,
man will imagine and infer additional things. That is, mans
mind contains what he perceives through his sense organs and what
he infers and imagines. The data so accumulated cause him either happiness
or sorrow.
Man is
always eager to accumulate pleasure-yielding data and to discard those
that cause him misery. In fact, all his endeavours are directed to
this end. The instruments that help him in such endeavours are the
Karmendriyas (organs of action). They are also five in number. They
are Vaak (speech), Paani (hands), Paada (legs), Paayu (excretory
organs) and Upastha (reproductive organs).
To move away from what he does not like and to move towards what he
relishes, man uses his legs. Similarly, to draw towards him what he
likes and, to discard what he doesnt, he uses his hands. To
get discard from the body what is not useful to him, he uses the organs
of excretion and to gain certain types of pleasure, he uses his organs
of reproduction. Of what use is speech to him?
Man does
not become satisfied with the fruits that he gets by self-effort.
Therefore, he tries to make use of the help of his fellow beings in
order to increase pleasure. In this effort, he needs to express what
he already has with him and what he desires from others. There is
only one agency that can successfully do it. That is, the speech.
Also, many a time, man feels like sharing his experiences both
pleasurable and miserable - with his fellow beings. Even here it is
the speech that makes it possible.
Thus, when man wishes to share with others what he has perceived
either directly through his own sense organs or through his mind,
there is only one instrument at his disposal which can do it. That
is the speech. In other words, man absorbs through six instruments
(the sense organs and the mind), and, when he wishes to give out what
he has absorbed, he can do so only through one channel, i.e., the
speech.
Let us
see from a different angle. Man is not satisfied with what he perceives
through his own sense organs. He would like to experience what others
perceived through their organs of perception. He makes a conscious
effort in that direction. If the other person is willing to share
it, even he has only one medium through which he can do so. That is
the speech. In other words, what the other person had perceived through
his sense organs and the mind, can be passed on to the first person
through the channel called speech.
As the
world becomes more civilized, most of mans knowledge comes not
directly from his own perception of objects and phenomena, but from
the words of the elderly and the wise. It can therefore be said that
what man learns from others is more than what he learns through his
own sense organs and the mind. The knowledge thus obtained by him
will be transmitted to others again with the help of speech. Thus,
it becomes clear that although speech itself is not one of the Jnanendriyas,
it is more powerful than the aforementioned six instruments.
Because Vaak (speech, word) has such great significance, all civilized
societies attach much prominence to training the children in speaking
properly. Ancient Indian Rishis realised that the stream of knowledge
flows through speech. Thus, they worshipped Vaak (speech) as God.
It is noteworthy that of the eleven instruments (five Jnanendriyas,
five Karmendriyas and the mind), only Vaak(speech) has been accorded
the status of God. The name given to it is Vaak Devi, or Vagdevi.
Vagdevi is none other than Goddess Saraswati. Etymologically, the
word Saraswati means that which has the tendency to flow.
Because speech helps in the flow of knowledge, the name Saraswati
has been given to it.
There
are innumerable types of animals on the earth. Among them, it is only
man who is leading a social and civilized life. It is needles to say
that it is speech that helps him to be a social and civilized being.
It is speech that distinguishes man from animals and makes him civilized.
Be that
as it may. Let us see from another standpoint. There are innumerable
objects in the world. These objects leave innumerable impressions
on the mind. These impressions in turn cause either happiness or sorrow
to that person. Which is more important? The object or the impression?
As far
as man is concerned, his happiness (or sorrow) is most important for
him. What cause happiness or sorrow are the impressions? Therefore,
impressions are the next important things. Everything else is relatively
less significant.
What does speech convey? Is it about the objects of the world or about
the impressions that the objects leave on the mind? If we analyse
properly, we can say with certainty that speech conveys the impressions
in the mind. Thus, speech expresses the most valuable aspect in the
world (i.e., the impressions).
From
the above discussion two things become clear. One, mans knowledge
acquisition is dependent on speech. Two, it is speech which can express
man most precious possession. By this we can understand the
important position that speech holds in the civilized life of man.
Therefore, our ancient Rishis have done extensive research about what
speech can achieve.
Any object
in the world becomes useful only when it is used. Perhaps it is only
speech that is useful even when not used! But there is a method of
using it positively and a method of not using it! The method of using
it is called Satya Vrata. The method of not using it is called Mouna
Vrata.
What
is useful to one person will be useful to another person also. We
wish to give to our loved ones the most precious thing we have. In
the discussion above, it was shown that word (Vaak) is the most precious
of all possessions of man. Therefore, if we really love anyone, the
most precious gift we can give is "word" i.e., Vaagdaana.
(Vaak=word, Daana=gift. Vaagdaana can be translated as promise)
Is there
any dearth for promises? Is it something for which we have to spend
a penny? Why not go on giving promises to everyone we like! What harm
does it do? After, has it not been said that it is the most precious
gift? Also, gifts and charities yield merit. So, why not make such
gifts some may think.
All our
discussion about the greatness of word was indeed very
meaningful. But the conclusion we arrived at end does not somehow
fit. It means that there is some flaw in it. The Sookti below is pinpointing
that flaw.
Nijashaktimavekshya
naanjasaa
Nanu vaagdaana vidhirvidheeyataam
Anupaalaya vaachamarchitaam
Tvarayaa praana vimochanairapi
(Estimate
your capabilities before you make any promise.
Do not be hasty while making promises.
Once you make a promise, keep it up even if you have to die for it.)
The above
Sookti is cautioning us to be mindful while making a promise.
In our discussion, it was stated that the method of using speech positively
is Satya Vrata (to be always truthful is speech). Because
we forgot this for a moment, a paradoxical thinking had cropped up.
Such thinking is one of the natural weaknesses inherent in man. The
cause for this weakness is his forgetting of Truth. As long as man
remembers the Divine Truth in its completeness, he can lead a divine
life. If this is not possible, he should be truthful to the fullest
extent possible to him. He will then be at least a human being. If
he forgets this also, his mind will start engaging in faulty and wicked
logic, which in turn, lead him to animal-hood.
We have
already learnt that the impressions in the mind are more precious
and important than anything else in the world. We also understood
that speech, which expresses the impressions in the mind, is also
very precious and great. Fair enough.
A person
will imprint similar experiences when another person conveys his experiences
through the speech channel. Does it mean that just by listening to
the other persons expressions he will also be able to have the
same experience?
Let us consider an example. A certain person ate a mango. Its taste
delighted him. The experience became etched in the mind. He went to
his friend and expressed with the help of speech, the good feeling.
By this, did the second persons tongue experience the sweetness
of the mango? No. What happened was that by listening to the narration
of the first person, his friend got a desire to eat a mango. This
desire causes him to strive for it. If he succeeds and indeed eats
a mango, he will be able to fully appreciate what his friend had explained
about the taste of a mango. What is the greatness of speech here?
The words
of the first person kindled a desire for mango in his friends
mind. This made him pursue his desire and subsequently culminated
in experience. Thus, the first persons words acted as the cause
for the other persons experience. The greatness of speech (of
the first person) is limited to this extent only.
Let us
consider another example. A person comes to you offering help. What
is help? To make you get what you are pursuing (for example, a mango).
If he does not able to do it, the word help has no meaning.
When
someone offers to help, we become happy. Why? Because we feel that
we will soon get a mango. Assume that he does not help and you do
not get a mango. You will then become sad. Who is responsible for
it? Not the mango that you did not get. The person who promised you
help (but did not help) is responsible. Now assume that he actually
helped you in getting a mango. You become happy. Who is responsible
for this happiness? To some extent the person who helped you and to
some extent the mango you ate!
If there
is anyone who deserves Punya (merit) for the happiness you got, to
a certain extent it is the person who kept up his promise of helping
you get a mango. To a certain extent, it is the mango itself. However,
because mango is not an object with consciousness, it has nothing
to do with either merit or sin.
Failing
to keep up the promise will result in sadness for you. To whom should
the sin (of causing sadness) go? Here, there are no partners to share
it. Therefore, all the sin goes to the person who promised (and didnt
keep it up).
It means
that the amount of sin one gets by not keeping up the promise is far
more than the merit earned by keeping it up!
Speech
always is dependent on an object. Therefore, a promise is also depends
on an object. Therefore, a person making a promise should first verify
if that object is within his reach. Otherwise, he will not be able
to keep up the promise and will acquire sin.
If a
person thinks that promising is a noble act and engages in promising
without trying to fulfill them, he will acquire nothing but sin. What
is even worse is making a promise with an intention of deceiving another
person. Such a person will fall to the sin-pit. The above Sookti therefore
says, Keep up your word even if you have to give your life for
it.
What
should one do to keep it up? The answer to this question is also in
the Sookti. It says "Nija shaktimavekshya" estimate
your capabilities before you make any promise. What does estimating
ones own capabilities mean? To verify if the object promised
is within ones reach. Only after examining it should one make
a promise. No promise should be made impulsively or under the influence
of over-confidence. Having made a promise, one should not try to escape
saying, the situation was such that I had to make that promise.
The situation has changed now, and therefore my promise does not hold
good now.
In the
earlier discussion above, it was mentioned that there is a method
of using the speech. It was told then that it is called as Satya Vrata.
Vaagdaana is but a part of Satya Vrata.
Well,
we have made a promise and intend to keep it up too. But surely we
need time to fulfill it. To what extent can we postpone fulfilling
the promise? Let us take our own sweet time to fulfill our promise.
Such thinking is another form of breaking the promise! If consciously
breaking the promise is like stabbing a person to death, postponing
is like starving a person to death. Therefore, the above Sookti cautions
us to fulfill the promise as quickly as possible. It urges us to refrain
from being hasty while making a promise, but insists that there should
be a sense of urgency in fulfilling a promise.
Very
well. Indeed the promise made should be fulfilled immediately. "During
the rainy season, I made a promise of giving him a mango. Even if
I want to fulfill it immediately, I will not be able to do so till
the next summer comes"- said a person. Fair enough. The summer
arrived. The person who had made the promise now says, I will
fulfill my promise in the next summer. Such postponement is
unfair.
Let us examine another possibility. When the summer came, assume that
the financial condition of the person who had made the promise was
not very good. He may say, "I made the promise from the bottom
of my heart. Even now, I want to keep it up. But what can I do? My
economic condition does not permit it. Therefore, my promise is null
and void now". Such an attitude is akin to uprooting the promise
itself. "Why do you take such an extreme view? What can any one
do in such a helpless situation?" one may ask. The answer to
this question is also in the Sookti itself. It says, "keep it
up even if you have to die for it".
The words
used here are only symbolic. Giving up ones life does not actually
mean dying. Life here means that which is very dear. That which is
very valuable. It means that one should keep up the promise even if
it means disposing ones most valuable possessions.
"What
if nothing is there to dispose?" one may ask. If the promise
has been made sincerely with truthfulness and love in the heart, such
a situation will not arise at all! Something will be there to bail
him out. One should find it out and with its help, try to fulfill
the promise.
Does
this seem too cruel? To prevent such a situation, the first part of
the Sookti cautions us to be mindful while making a promise. The scriptures
are full of noble persons who did not hesitate to give up their life
for keeping up the promise. In an eagerness to emulate their example,
if we also make promises without even knowing if we are capable of
fulfilling them, we will surely push ourselves to a very tight situation.
We should therefore first examine our capabilities, our limits and
our strength. We should also realise the real meaning of promise and
the merit we earn by fulfilling it and the sin that we earn by not
fulfilling it. If we exercise enough caution, we will not find ourselves
in such difficult and tight situations.
There are other ways of making positive use of speech. That is, talking
kindly to those who are is distress and difficulty, talking sweetly,
disseminating ones knowledge to others without expecting any
thing in return, etc.. These do not incur any expenditure. Even the
great Manu has extolled the greatness of this kind of positive use
of speech.
May Lord
Dattatreya bless you to understand and practice both types of positive
usage of speech.
Jaya
Guru Datta.
Sri
Swamiji