The word 'service' has of late assumed several meanings. Broadly,
we see two kinds of service. Those which are rendered for a fee and
those which are rendered without expecting anything in return. In
the contemporary financial world, service is, like manufacturing,
considered as a 'sector'. No one seems to think that the actions done
for a fee should be called as business and not as service.
Let us assume that a particular person started thinking as to how
something which carries a fee be called as service. He approaches
his intelligent friend, whose clarification was something like this.
Even after taking money, if what is promised is not offered, it is
business. On the other hand, if one delivers what one has promised
to deliver, it becomes service even though there a fee charged for
it.
If we accept his definition of service, what should we call what a
mother does to her new born child? What should we call the duty performed
by the disciple with respect to his Guru? What should we call the
yeoman works that volunteers undertake at the time of natural calamities
like earthquake, floods etc.?
If we think that helping others without taking money is service, then
the small favours people do to please the rowdy of their own locality
should also be considered as 'seva'. There are people who undertake
charitable acts just to earn fame. Just because they do not expect
financial returns for their acts, can the acts be called as 'seva'?
No.
Therefore it would be proper to consider such acts as 'Seva' which
are undertaken out of love for fellow beings without expecting financial
rewards. Such acts which are performed grudgingly or under the influence
of fear.
We observe that normally for a person to undertake Seva, he should
have love for the person who is receiving the Seva. We develop special
liking for some people. We do not like everyone. Not only that, we
may even hate some people although there may be no reason.
Why is it so?
We have just now said that there may be no reason at all! Then why
this question?
It is not that there is no reason. The reason is not known to us.
That's all. Let us try to analyze the reason.
There are three things which can cause liking. 1) that which comes
by natural attachment, 2) selfishness and 3) knowledge. The mother
loves her newborn child. This is something which comes naturally.
There is no selfishness in this. When the child becomes an adult,
the mother loves him because he is the bread winner or because he
takes care of her in her old age. So, there is an element of selfishness
here.
Let us consider another example. A beggar is standing in front of
a house. The housewife is annoyed because he has come at an unearthly
hour. The husband takes a closer look at the beggar. He immediately
recognizes that it is his Guru who has disguised himself as a beggar
to test him. He immediately welcomes him and serves him food. Here,
the affection shown by this person is because of his proper understanding
of the disguised person.
The love which comes because of natural attachment remains quite strong
for some time. But it will start diminishing if it starts coming in
the way of our own interests. For example, the mother's love for his
son will not remain the same if the son starts tormenting her when
he grows up.
Love that develops because of selfishness and love of convenience
is always transitory. It is wavering in nature.
Love which develops due to knowledge has the tendency to grow as the
knowledge increases.
Let us consider the example of a social worker. If his love for the
society is because of his knowledge of the society and the requirements
of its people, it will go on increasing as his knowledge increases.
What is the knowledge that he should acquire about the society?
To understand this, we should look from a different angle.
Why will anyone love somebody? If we look at the world, we see that
people naturally develop love for their family members, friends, relatives
and those who help them. There will not be any affinity towards others.
Not only this, some people will be unduly averse towards some people.
There are also instances when one starts liking another person because
of some attraction, but in due course of time, if one feels that the
affinity is not in tune with one's preferences or interests, one starts
disliking the same person after sometime. It is therefore difficult
to think that a person can love another person without reason or unconditionally.
Even if it happens, it will not remain so for long.
What does this mean? Does it mean that in this world there are no
persons who have unconditional love for others? Of course, there are
such men. We do not deny it. We are only trying to analyze the reason
behind such unconditional love.
Man loves to satisfy his own interests. At the same time he will also
have love for the Almighty who is in fact fulfilling his desires.
Although man doesn't really know the real nature of the Almighty,
this love will continue. In the beginning, this love will have fulfillment
of man's desires as its basis. Gradually, as man's understanding of
the Almighty improves, he will learn to love the Almighty regardless
of whether his desires are being fulfilled or not. This is strange,
but true.
When man reaches this stage, and when this attitude becomes mature
enough, man will realize that it is the Almighty who is very dear
to him who is the Creator of the universe and that the same God dwells
in the hearts of all beings. This understanding comes to him naturally.
When such an attitude develops in him, he will no longer hate any
being. Not only that, he will start loving everyone. Because his love
for the Almighty is real and strong, he will display true and sustained
love towards all beings.
This is how he becomes capable of developing true and permanent love.
As long as he is alive, he serves his fellow beings with true love.
He does not expect anything in turn. He does not charge for his services.
If need be, he will spend his own resources. He does not even expect
gratitude from those who have received his services. Nothing can prevent
him from serving the society. Even if people display ego, selfishness
or meanness, he will not deviate from his path.
Very well. Not only such people are hard to come by, the society brands
such people as mad.
In reality, it is not madness. It would have been madness if such
acts of social service did not yield any benefits. But the fact remains
that selfless service always yields benefits. Let us see how.
We have seen that the person who sees the Almighty in the hearts of
all beings and therefore starts developing true love towards all will
eventually concentrate only on the indwelling Almighty. For someone
who does not attach much importance to external appearances and the
external world, it becomes easy to have the total experience of the
Almighty. If, because of old age, the person dies before this experience,
he will be born as a Maharshi in the subsequent birth and will straight-away
start treading the path of Yoga. Selfless service yields such rich
dividends. How can it be called madness?
In this way, the ordinary man who, in the beginning restricts his
love to his family members, will gradually learn to love his fellow
beings in the society without expecting anything in return. From this
stage, achieving the state of having the total experience of the Almighty
is a very long journey. Really, one birth is not enough for this.
One may have to take millions of births. Our mythology is abundant
with such examples.
Is there no way to reach the goal faster? Let us assume that we are
somewhere in the middle in this long journey. Is there any way we
can move faster so that we can reach the goal quickly? The following
Sookti is like a wonder pill for the seekers who are restlessly looking
for faster methods -
Aatma sangrahanechchaa chet
maitreem sarvatrikeem kuru
Maitreechchaa chet harim pashya
kuru sevaam cha sarvatah
If at all you wish to see the Atman (=Paramatma, the Almighty), then
develop unconditional friendship towards all beings. If you want to
cultivate such unselfish friendship, learn to see Sri Hari (the Almighty)
everywhere and in everything. Render service to one and all. This
is the purport of this Sookti.
We have acquainted ourselves with the theoretical part. The above
Sookti shows us the steps to put it to practice. The first step is
to develop friendship with all beings. By nature, we love some people.
We do not need to put in any special effort for it. One should learn
to extend this love to the entire mankind. There are several attitudes
which help us to develop such friendship. Here are some of them:
'All are God's children. It would therefore be wrong to consider some
as our friends and some as our enemies'.
'It is because of the magnanimity of great scientists that we are
today able to enjoy the benefits of scientific breakthroughs. Therefore,
we should emulate their example and see that the fruits of our efforts
are enjoyed by the entire mankind'.
Thinking on these lines, we should device a path for ourselves to
share our love with all the beings equally. The above Sookti declares
that if such unconditional love and friendship have to stay for ever,
it is imperative that we realize that the Almighty is always dwelling
in the hearts of all beings.
After realizing this, there should be manifold increase in our service
activities. By relentlessly doing such acts of service, we will reach
the ultimate state -being able to actually see the Almighty. This
is the ultimate step.
By the grace of Lord Dattatreya, may you all become eligible to ascend
this ultimate step.
Jaya Guru Datta.
Sri Swamiji