Those
who are in teaching profession usually face two types of problems.
How to make the dull students understand the subject this is
the first problem. How to inculcate good behaviour in aggressive and
arrogant students this is the second problem.
The
first problem tests and increases the intellectual capacity of the
teacher while the second problem tests his patience.
There are many teachers who do not give due importance to the second
problem. Even those who bother about this problem display impatience
and try to bring about change by being strict. Some people argue that
it is not proper to be so strict and that one should earn the confidence
and love of children and then try to bring about transformation in
them. Some others opine that such softness is not useful in all cases.
They also say that being strict may not work in certain cases. Each
child is different and therefore, the methods should also be different
to suit the mental setup of the child say some specialists.
If it is so difficult to bend the small children who are like tender
plants, how much more difficult it will be to transform elders? How
do we induce good thinking in them? These are the questions faced
by spiritual teachers. The other name given to spiritual teacher is
Sadguru.
Usually
it is the grown ups that approach the Sadguru and ask Him to uplift
them. When the Sadguru tries to rectify their mistakes, they turn
stubborn. They are fully convinced that there are no defects in them.
With such a mental attitude, they engage themselves in Guru Seva.
The Gurus always find such disciples problematic. A Sadguru has the
responsibility of removing each and every defect in His disciple.
He has to remove the ego and selfishness that are present in His disciples.
The following Sookti is intended for such Sadgurus.
Mridutva
naisvaarthya mukhaan sva shishye
Dhaatum gurustad vipareetameti
Stanandhaya vyaadhi nivaaranaaya
Maataa pibet tikta rasam svayam hi
In
order to induce noble qualities such as tenderness and selflessness
in His disciples, a Sadguru will sometimes take upon Himself qualities
opposite to such noble qualities (such as harshness and selfishness).
It is just like the breast-feeding mother who drinks bitter concoctions
to cure the babys disease.
There
is some similarity between what the above Sookti is saying and the
opinion of the specialists who say that the teachers should act keeping
in mind the mindset of the pupil. But there is a strong disagreement
also. The above Sookti says that the Guru should display those qualities
that are opposite to what He intends to bring about in His disciple.
This is in sharp contrast to the opinion that it is difficult to enforce
upon the grown-ups noble thoughts and that one should try to inculcate
noble qualities by first practicing it oneself.
Those
belonging to the inculcation school of thought take the
help of examples of great men such as Mahatma Gandhi. On the other
hand, those who uphold enforcement reinforce their argument
with the help of examples of hardcore criminals who are beyond repair.
Among these two opinions which one does the Sookti favour?
It does not favour either of them. In fact, it does not even touch
those problems. The Sookti is intended for the Gurus of such disciples,
who, despite being in the spiritual path are not able to overcome
their evil qualities because of the tendencies of previous lives.
Once this becomes clear, one will not compare the message of the Sookti
with the above two schools of thought.
Certain
episodes that we come across in the Dattatreya Purana help us to understand
this better.
A pious person by name Vishnu Datta and his wife were leading a life
predominantly occupied by penance right from their young age. Vishnu
Datta was leading a pure spiritual life. He never got entangled in
mundane life. He once got a desire to have the Darshan of Lord Dattatreya.
Vishnu Datta had a Guru, who had guided him very well in the spiritual
path. Vishnu Datta was a very hard working disciple and had achieved
much progress in the spiritual journey. Now he got a desire to have
the Darshan of Lord Dattatreya. Even Lord Dattatreya had the Samkalpa
of giving him Darshan.
Where was the necessity for Lord Dattatreya to give Darshan to Vishnu
Datta, who had already become quite old and had already achieved much
spiritual progress? It was because there were certain defects in Vishnu
Datta which his Guru was unable to remove. Now, Lord Dattatreya had
taken upon Himself the responsibility of eradicating those defects.
Therefore He wanted to give Darshan to Vishnu Datta.
Vishnu
Datta was an aged person. He had practiced Tapas for many years. How
can there be any defect left in him? Yes. Even such persons have defects.
Such defects remain unknown to the person who possesses them. It is
only Lord Dattatreya who can remove such defects.
Dattatreya
first appeared to Vishnu Datta in a meat shop. That too in the form
of an alcoholic. Although Vishnu Datta could make out that it was
none other than Lord Dattatreya, he didnt go near Him. On the
second occasion, Lord Dattatreya appeared like a wild person wandering
in graveyards. This time also, Vishnu Datta did not go near Him.
After
these two episodes, introspective churning began in Vishnu Dattas
mind. Why is Lord Datta appearing in such forms?- he asked himself.
After much churning, Amrita came out. What Amrita? The nectar of thought.
What thought? I am hating bad things. It is not good to have
hatred. I must always be in the right path; still I should not hate
bad behaviour. In spite of knowing this, I am hating it. Lord Dattatreya
is appearing in those forms only to serve as a mirror and show me
my defects. This was the line of thinking of Vishnu Datta.
Once
this nectar-like thought was born in Vishnu Dattas mind, there
was no defect left in him anymore. After reconfirming this once again,
Lord Dattatreya gave Darshan to Vishnu Datta in His real form.
There
is another episode in Datta Purana, when Lord Dattatreya appears to
Indra in the form of a drunken person engaged in lustful play with
women. Although Indra misunderstood Dattatreya in the beginning, he
sought the advice of elderly sages and soon corrected himself. Sadguru
Datta! Because I have become a slave of my senses, you gave me Darshan
in that form in order to point out my defect Indra told himself.
Because of such thinking, Indra got protection.
When
Lord Dattatreya appeared to Jambhasura and other demons in the same
form, they believed that whatever they were seeing was real and tried
to kidnap the girl next to Lord Dattatreya. When Lord Dattatreya realized
that the desired transformation had not occurred in the minds of the
demons, He decided that they were unfit to live. In no time, they
were defeated by Devatas.
These
episodes make one thing very clear. Lord Dattatreya did not show the
same form to all. He showed such forms which mirrored the defects
of those who came to have His Darshan. In other words, He acted as
a mirror. The above Sookti is advocating the same technique.
In
order to point out that a Guru behaves as a mirror, the phrase Gurustad
vipareetameti has been used. Vipareeta in Sanskrit
means inverted. When does an object appear inverted? When it is kept
in front of a mirror. When the Guru takes the role of a mirror, the
phenomenon of lateral inversion takes place and the defects of the
disciple reflect in the Sadguru. At the same time, the noble qualities
of the Sadguru get transmitted to the disciple. This phenomenon is
indicated by the term Viparyayam in the above Sookti.
This word indicates not only the method adopted, but also the fruit
it bears.
A very good explanation indeed. But is it proper for the Guru to use
such foolhardy methods just for the sake of the disciples? Should
they do it? some may ask. The above Sookti justifies it with
the help of the example of the mother who drinks bitter medicine for
the sake of her child. It does not mean that making the mother drink
bitter medicine can cure every disease of the child. However, in certain
cases it may be a good method. In such cases, the mother does not
say this medicine is very bitter, I cant drink it and
avoid drinking it. Similarly, when all the paths are closed and when
the Guru realizes this is the only path left, he will
assume the form of a mirror and will not (and should not) hesitate
to reflect in Himself the ugly defects of His disciple. With the help
of the example of mirror, the Sookti helps the disciples to understand
the occasional odd behaviour of the Sadguru. It will also
prevent the disciples from suffering the same fate as Jambhasura.
Jambhasura is different in that he did not accept Dattatreya as his
Guru. There are examples of those who, despite accepting Dattatreya
as Sadguru and obtaining much help from Him, committed the mistake
of misunderstanding Him. The episode of Dharma Keerti (in Datta Darshana)
is an example for this. By understanding the message of the above
Sookti, one can avert such a mistake.
May
Lord Dattatreya shower His blessings on you so that you may succeed
in understanding your Sadguru in the right perspective. May you not
push your Sadguru to a circumstance when He is forced to drink bitter
medicine for your sake!
Jaya Guru Datta.
Jaya
Guru Datta.
Sri
Swamiji